A good girl plays small , does what she is told, never asks questions, silences her voice, plays by the rules, and is always putting others first
We’ve been conditioned by society to seek approval, to avoid making waves, and to be "nice" at the cost of our own dreams and desires.
Is an amazing radiant woman that takes no shit, but owns her shit. She is completely and unapologetically herself. She lives on the edge of greatness and is always testing her limits (in a good way). She refuses to let anyone or anything dim her light. She is confident in her abilities and herself. She sets boundaries and sticks to them. She knows boundaries protect herself, her energy, and her peace. She knows her worth, speaks her truth, and takes control of her destiny while inspiring others to do the same. She is fierce yet compassionate, strong yet empathetic, and embodies a balance of grace and grit as she navigates life with passion and purpose
Growing up, I was told to "be a good girl"—follow the rules, don’t make waves, and always put others first. I spent years doing just that, letting guilt and shame run my life. It affected how I saw myself, how I showed up in the world, and the relationships I stayed in. I kept shrinking, thinking if I just played nice, eventually, I’d be loved and appreciated.
But trying to be the "good girl" left me drained and stuck in situations that didn’t serve me. I hit rock bottom in my mid-20s, questioning my worth and my place in the world.
In my 30s, I realized it was time to stop living by everyone else’s expectations. I went from playing small to fully owning my power—and became the bad-ass bitch I was always meant to be.
Now, I live life on my terms, unapologetically. My mission is to help other women break free from the "good girl" mold and step into their power. It’s time to own your story, let go of the guilt, and take control of your life.
You ready? Let's go!
I'm Amber, Master Empowerment Coach, your Self-Love Sidekick and a Badass Bitch!